what matters most
rediscovering your authentic self
southern california wine country
may 17-20, 2019
REGISTRATION IS CLOSED
southern california wine country
march 17-20, 2019
Imagine sitting poolside at a palatial Mediterranean estate with a glass of wine in your hand enjoying the panoramic views of Southern California’s world-class wine region. Fine wine, delicious food, fireside chats, deep belly laughs, and transformative coaching. Join empowerment coach Sarah Carmichael for a weekend of personal exploration and life changing adventure among the rolling hills and fertile vineyards of beautiful Temecula Valley, California.
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If you're looking for more joy and fulfillment in your life, the What Matters Most: Rediscovering Your Authentic Self retreat is for you. Explore your inner truth, ignite your passion, and gain the energy and strength you need to create a clear vision for you future.
During this intimate, 4-day women's retreat, you’ll participate in more than 15 hours of group coaching sessions and self-reflection exercises designed to unlock your authentic self by revealing your fundamental values, key personality traits, personal strengths, and limiting beliefs. We’ll create the space for you to explore your big life questions and provide the guidance and support you need to achieve the personal growth and change you desire.
In addition to being a transformative coaching experience, the What Matters Most retreat is a relaxing getaway to nurture and renew your spirit, and an exciting adventure in Southern California’s renowned wine county.
Enjoy plenty of free time to use the pool and jacuzzi at our magnificent Mediterranean estate; read a book; take a nap; or explore the unique shops and first-class wineries of Temecula.
We can't forget the wine! Kicking off Friday evening with a welcome reception and dinner featuring the artisanal food and wine of the region, and ending Sunday evening with a wine-tasting tour and a Champagne breakfast Monday morning, there will be plenty of opportunity to sample the fruit of the vines.
It’s our goal to create a retreat that is fun and inspiring, where new friendships are found, and women feel encouraged and supported to stretch beyond their comfort zone. I hope you will join us this Spring in Temecula.
this retreat is for you if:
you’re confused about who you are and want you want
you want to discover your true purpose and develop a plan to act on it
you have a vision for your life but need clarity on how to accomplish it
you’re open to new ideas and eager to make change
you want to feel more love in your life - for yourself and others
you’re looking to connect with other amazing and inspiring women
your husband and kids are driving you crazy and you need some space to relax and just breathe
you enjoy good food and great wine
you’re passionate, enthusiastic, and love to laugh
deep and dynamic coaching sessions and group work designed to uncover your true purpose and authentic self
daily thought meditation using the power of intentional thinking to rewire your brain for positive change, and to bring clarity and mindfulness to your life
luxurious private accommodations on a beautiful 5-acre Mediterranean estate in the heart of Southern California's wine country
welcome reception with gourmet food and a
selection of Temecula's best reds, whites, and rosé
delicious, farm-to-table breakfasts and lunches each day
snacks throughout the day
afternoon winery tour with wine tastings
free time to relax by the pool, explore the wineries, or visit the quaint shops and restaurants of Old Town Temecula
space to rejuvenate and renew your spirit
the opportunity to connect with a community
of amazing, supportive women
one, 60-minute follow-up coaching session
with Sarah Carmichael after the retreat
what's not included:
airfare to and from the San Diego International Airport (SAN), Ontario International Airport (ONT), or John Wayne Airport, Orange County (SNA)
ground transportation to and from the airport
dinner on Saturday and Sunday evening
travel insurance (recommended but not required)
retreat check-in begins at 4pm
welcome wine reception and planned community building activities - 6pm
dinner – 8pm
breakfast – 8am
group coaching session – 9am
lunch and relaxation – 12pm
group coaching session - 2pm
thought meditation – 4pm
free time – 4:30pm-9pm (dinner is on your own)
fireside group connection – 9pm
thought meditation – 8am
breakfast – 8:30am
group coaching session – 9am
lunch – 12:00pm
group coaching session – 1pm
wine tasting tour – 3pm
farewell dinner in Temecula – 7pm
thought meditation – 8am
intention setting ceremony - 8:30am
champagne breakfast – 9am
check-out – 10am
All suites are single occupancy unless otherwise noted. For suites with a shared occupancy allowance, guests must share the bed. Shared occupancy is only available to guests who are already acquainted, and their fees must be paid together upon booking.
This retreat is for women aged 21 and over.
Attendance is confirmed once full payment is received.
frequently asked questions
When should I arrive and when do we head home?
Check-in at the estate begins at 4pm on Friday, May 17th. Activities begin at 6pm.
The retreat concludes at 10am Monday, May 20th after a celebratory Champagne breakfast.
Please ensure that your flight times will allow for you to arrive and depart the retreat relaxed and on-time.
What airport should I fly into?
Temecula is centrally located within Southern California, close to two international airports: Ontario International Airport (ONT) and San Diego International Airport (SAN); and a popular commercial airport: John Wayne Airport, Orange County (SNA).
Ontario International Airport is located approximately 53 miles from Temecula, and San Diego International Airport is about 57 miles. Both airports are approximately a 45-minute drive from the estate. John Wayne Airport is a bit further, located 67 miles from Temecula, about a 55-minute drive. The traffic though from this airport can be very challenging.
Ground transportation to and from the airport will be at the guest's expensive. Taxi service or uber is a great option for any travel during the retreat, however if you’re planning to spend your free time seeing the sights of Temecula or if you’re planning to extend your trip in the region, a rental car may be your best option. If you’re interested in carpooling with another retreat guest, please email us at firstname.lastname@example.org and we will reach out to the group on your behalf.
Are all of my meals provided?
Breakfast and lunch will be provided daily as well as dinner and wine on the first night of the retreat. Dinner on Saturday night will be on your own to visit the outstanding restaurants of Old Town Temecula. On Sunday, the cost of the wine tasting tour will be covered by Coming Clean as well as transportation to and from the Farewell Dinner, the cost of the dinner however is at the guest’s expense.
The kitchen at the estate will also be fully stocked with snacks and non-alcoholic beverages you can enjoy throughout the day.
What if I have dietary restrictions?
Each of the meals provided during the retreat feature farm-to-table fresh ingredients that can be modified for a vegetarian diet. If you have specific medical dietary restrictions, please email us at email@example.com and we will try our best to accommodate your request. Unfortunately, we cannot guarantee nut-free, gluten-free, paleo, or strictly organic menu options.
Will there be free time during the retreat to just relax and explore the sights of Temecula?
Definitely! The retreat offers a balance of powerful personal-growth work and interactive group exercises with fun games and excursions, and plenty of free time to relax and visit the sights of Temecula Valley. And remember, free time is your time. Attendees are not required to spend their free time with other retreat guests.
How many women will attend the retreat?
Maximum of 10. Coming Clean retreats are designed to be small and intimate to create the best environment group coaching; and to ensure that each guest receives a personalized retreat experience.
Can I share my room with a friend?
Each of the seven rooms at the estate are private with one king-size or queen-size bed. There are no traditional shared accommodations. However, if you’d like to attend the retreat with a female friend and share your room and bed, a limited amount of shared accommodations are available. Please see the registration options above for details.
After I register for the retreat, what happens next?
Once you reserve your room and receive your booking confirmation, we'll send you a short personal questionnaire that helps us get to know a little bit about you and what you hope to acheive by attending the retreat. The goal of a Coming Clean retreat is to create the best environment for self-discovery, personal-growth, adventure, and shared laughter. The questionnaire helps us to personalize this experience.
After completing the questionnaire, each attendee will also receive a 30-minute call from retreat leader and coach Sarah Carmichael to welcome you to the Coming Clean community and to answer any questions you may have about the retreat or the group coaching experience.
Attendees can also expect to receive email notifications of itinerary updates and news as the retreat draws near.
What should I bring to the retreat?
Check out our recommended packing list.
Do I need to purchase travel insurance?
We highly recommend retreat attendees purchase comprehensive travel insurance to protect themselves from the unexpected. If you need to cancel your trip after the retreat’s refund window has closed, travel insurance will reimburse your investment. If you get injured or fall ill while at the retreat, or God forbid, a natural disaster happens and the retreat is compromised, comprehensive travel insurance will protect you and your money.
Coming Clean does not offer refunds to attendees who cancel within 45 days of the retreat, and all cancellations between March 19th and April 3rd, 2019, are subject to our $500 non-refundable administration fee. Please view our Cancellation Policy below for more details.
All retreat attendees must sign a liability waiver acknowledging the risks involved in participating the retreat and removing Coming Clean’s legal liability should unfortunate incidents occur.
Are there any discounts?
All of Sarah Carmichael’s clients currently enrolled in a 1:1 or group coaching program are eligible for a 10% discount off their first Coming Clean retreat. Clients must email firstname.lastname@example.org to obtain their coupon code before booking.
What is the cancellation policy?
All bookings are subject to a non-refundable $500 administration fee. For cancellations before March 19th, 2019 (60 days before the retreat), we offer a full refund of the retreat fees. For cancellations between March 19th and April 3rd, 2019, a full refund minus the $500 non-refundable administration fee will be offered. After April 3rdd, 2019 there no refunds. There are also no refunds for guests who decide to leave the retreat early. Travel insurance is strongly recommended.
Why is there a non-refundable administration fee?
When planning a retreat there are many moving parts and many non-refundable expenditures that must be paid in advance to make the retreat happen. When a guest cancels their booking, the time and administrative costs paid out for this guest cannot be recouped. The $500 non-refundable administration fee helps cover these costs.
Did we miss anything?
If you still have questions, please email us at email@example.com. We’re here to help!